Have or Have Not.

The phrase "either you have it or you don't" is utter horse fecal excrement.

Either you "earn it or you don't" should be what we teach our children.  Too many people today want things but don't earn them.

If you want respect, earn it.  You do not "have" respect without giving and earning it yourself.  You want to be rich? You better earn it.  Strong? Important? Famous? Powerful?  You must earn these things.

Some of you are so desperately wanting something.  Myself included some times.  We forget that we must EARN IT!  If you want it badly enough you will find a way to earn it.

Stop expecting hand outs, stop expecting it to just happen, get in there and earn it.  At then end of the day you should ask your self "Have I earned it? Or Have I not earned it?"  If there is any doubt, remove it and make sure you earn it.